Save this baby girl from abuse!

steven

/ #15 well...

2014-12-21 10:31

What if these people realize they don't want kids when she's 2 or 3. They like having a little baby,  but I have 3 kids, the oldest is seven now, and I can tell you that the first two years are a cake walk. You don't know how it's going to be. What if they decide they don't want to be with each other. A kid going through a tantrum manipulating both of you against each other puts strain on marriages.  I understand where you guys are coming from but people who are together and already have kids is a safer bet and a more stable bet. I do agree that the system is not perfect but it's better than a system run by rednecks and illiterate tweakers.